Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Losing Objectivity in Sports


What has happened to sports fans?  Loyalties seem to be diminishing and hatred is at an all-time high.  This though, is part of sport, but what is out of the ordinary in today's fans is the unbalanced not so objective approach to how we view athletes and teams.

During the Eastern Conference finals match up between the Indiana Pacers and the Miami Heat this point was exemplified.  Sure, it is normal to hate the defending champs, the evil empire, but to find reasons to make them look like bad guys when it doesn't make sense is embarrassing.  I am a Chicago Bulls fan, so I don't like either of these teams and have a particular disdain for the Indiana Pacers.  I understand the Heat have been the bigger threat lately and Chicago fans have grown a strong hate for them, but I can't make sense of it.

The hate usually starts and ends with one, LeBron James.  Listen, I remember sitting there waiting for "The Decision" and talking to many a Bulls fan with their fingers crossed that he will take his talents to Chicago.  I remember thinking what it would be like to have The King in a Bulls jersey and how he would live up to the bill.  This was all a mirage.  It wasn't happening.  He took his talents to South Beach and that started the negativity towards LeBron James as if he just insulted the city and slept with every Chicagoans mama.  Same can be said for the rest of the league that didn't win the high prized free agent.  It was a free agent decision, it's not that deep.

Fast forward a few years and now everyone calls LeBron "whiny", a "bitch", a "flopper", and many say he doesn't deserve to win another championship.  First of all, to all Lakers and Bulls fans, does Kobe not constantly complain to the refs, did Michael Jordan not expect every call?  Objectively speaking, those guys got more calls than LeBron gets and he has done no more or no less than these two guys have on the court in terms of facial expressions and his reaction to the refs.

LeBron going to Miami to play with better players is no different than Jordan winning with Pippen, or the original big 3, including Rodman, and it is no different than Shaq winning championships with Kobe, but LeBron is "taking the easy way out."  See the inconsistency in the fans approach?

Throughout this past series I kept hearing that the Heat are a bunch of floppers and play dirty.  Well, the Pacers had more fines than anyone in the NBA due to flopping.  The Pacers all-time great Reggie Miller was the king of flopping.  Pacers flop more, but don't get criticized for it, the Heat flop and they are a bunch of acting wussies.

The Bulls tried to beat the Heat by playing as dirty as possible.  When Nazr Mohammed shoved LeBron there were a plethora of "This is Chicago" memes and cheering going on (me included), but when Birdman does the exact thing to Hansborough, he's viewed as a dirty, scumbag basketball player by those same fans. This is also a series where Roy Hibbert said some pretty insensitive comments in a press conference seemingly forgetting millions were watching.  Imagine if LeBron or Wade said what Hibbert said.  They would be considered the biggest dirtballs on the planet, but no, it got ignored by those cheering against the Heat because the Heat weren't the team doing it.

The LeBron conversation is ongoing and will never end, but I will leave you with another example.  I have lived my life dealing with Chicago White Sox fans who hate the Cubs and their fans.  I am a Cubs fan from the Southside and I understand why this happens.  It's all in the fun of the rivalry.  Yet, this provides another perfect example of the subjective approach of many sports fans these days.

Cubs fans apparently are raucous drunks who only go to the game to drink and party.  So, I guess White Sox fans don't drink at baseball games?  As a matter of fact, they pride themselves on their ability to tailgate before games (which is awesome by the way) and I have seen many posts with pictures of Sox fans playing beer pong in the parking lot, doing beer bongs and having many drinks.  A good friend of mine goes and gets hammered every time.  Why is this ignored by them but they want to criticize Cubs fans for it.  Maybe "drinking at games" isn't the best argument you can make.  Especially when the far southside of the city prides itself off of the amount of Irish pubs that line Western Ave.  To be fair, Cubs fans aren't immune to this point I am trying to make either.  I myself like to criticize the fans for not going out and supporting their team, win or lose, like Cubs fans, when the numbers show that the Cubs attendance is significantly lower after losses than after wins.  So it works both ways.  It is part of our culture these days where hate on another team or teams fans trumps personal fandom.

Disliking a team or a player is just fine, even if you don't have a good reason, but to turn everything they do into a negative and to search to find more ways to criticize leads you to sound silly and quite honestly a pretty obnoxious, poor sports fan.  I hate the Heat. You may not think that after reading this diatribe, but that's my point.  I want the Bulls to be where the Heat are.  I want the Bulls to kick their ass, but I am not about to attack a guy like LeBron who has done everything right except an hour long special announcing his decision.  If he said "I am taking my talents to Chicago" or "I am taking my talents to Brooklyn", those very fans would love him and find him the best player in the league all while being a class act.

Monday, November 22, 2010

2010 - DMB Fan Book

Did you go to a Dave Matthews Band show this year?  Maybe it was more then one? Well I would love to hear from you!

The idea is to put together a fan book, where every show of 2010 is covered.  As many words as you want about your experience!!  Include what you did for tailgating, or post show if you want.  Let us know why the show was special to you, or maybe why it fell a little short.  Funny things that happened to you, people you met, your favorite song, the biggest surprise.. etc.  If you have pictures with yourself in there, or just great shots of the band, feel free to include it.

The format idea:

The chapters will be each show.  The chapter will start with the show name, a picture of the venue or the band playing at the venue and a setlist.  Following that will be the fan accounts and a page or three of pictures from each show.  Include your age if you would like to show the eclectic crowd DMB has.  Include the amount of shows you have been to, and what show number that particular account is referring to. 

If we can get this going, my goal is to get every show of 2010, bind it and send it to anybody who sent me their stories and then start spreading the word that it exist.  Maybe someday it will reach the band.  Thanks.

Send to: cal.condon@gmail.com
copyright: Cal Condon January 2011

Update: This idea has become a reality.  The stories are coming in! Keep them coming, I want to make this something special for us to all hold on to.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Dave Matthews Band Addiction - A Healthy Habit


A life changing moment varies from each individual.  For some its graduation or you got hired for the job of your dreams.  It could be a day where you lost someone close to you, or fell in love with the person you planned on spending the rest of your life with.  It may be the day you received your first guitar, or even played your first gig.  Maybe, you won the lottery or went bankrupt.  These are moments that we experience in one way or another, and they can have a significant impact on your life.  They have for me.  I have graduated, won awards, lost people close to me and fell in love.  I also remember receiving my first guitar, but I've never had my own gig.  I definitely hadn't won the lottery, or gone bankrupt (in the legal sense).  Although all these things may provide a significant influence in my life, the day that has defined me, a day that started tradition, happiness and musical ambition, is a day that gave me an out when things were going bad as well as a time that brought much joy.  That day is June 29, 2000 at Soldier Field for my first ever Dave Matthews Band show, the start of my addiction.

Their music can be described as acoustic rock or pop, but in its one unique category.  Some may call them a jam band for their jams, or 14 minute long songs.  They have elements of jazz, and with Tim Reynolds and his electric guitar in the lineup they have added more of a rock element.  Their albums were successful and enjoyable, but when you see a live show for the first time you will be hooked.  I have been hooked since that day in 2000 and 35 shows later I continue to be, as I am about to take the 10 hour drive to Virginia to see their last show before their first break in 20 years.

Around 1997,  My best friend, who grew up a couple houses down from me introduced me to this squeaky voiced band that included a saxophone (Leroi Moore) AND a violin (Boyd Tinsley), something I would have never thought to listen to.  Dave Matthews played a type of guitar I haven't heard, Carter Beauford is the best drummer on the planet and Stefan Lessard, the bassist, was younger then the entire band.  Not to mention, the band was racially balanced, something you don't see often.  At the time we were obsessed with classic rock coupled with the R&B/Rap songs of the time, so Dave Matthews Band was a whole new vibe.  For instance, we had burned a few Cd's at the time on software that takes an hour to burn the disc.  The track list would look something like this:

1. Led Zeppelin - Stairway to Heaven
2. The Eagles - Hotel California
3. Santana - Black Magic Woman
4. Ten Years After - I'd Love to Change the World
5. The Rolling Stones - Satisfaction
6. Yes - Roundabout
7. Boston - Foreplay/Long Time
8. Lynyrd Skynyrd - Freebird

1. City High - What Would you Do
2. Outkast - The Whole World
3. Nelly - Ride With Me
4. Jagged Edge - Where The Party At
5. Fat Joe ft. Ashanti - What's Love
6. Timberland & Magoo - Luv 2 Luv Ya
7. KC & JoJo - All My Life


At the time, to us, these songs weren't overplayed.  As a matter of fact, I apparently didn't know the magnitude of these songs when I asked my Mom if shes ever heard the song "Freebird" before.  She just laughed and went on to tell that story to everyone we know.  Now, as I attend a variety of musical acts in an array of venues, I have become "that guy".  You know, the one who yells "FREEBIRD!!" in between songs, for nothing more than to be "that guy."  All we cared about was the music and playing the air guitar.  These bands made us feel great and we looked forward to when we got old enough to step outside the walls of our bedrooms and see this music for ourselves.  It added a new dimension of idolization to my life.  I no longer only dreamed of being Ryne Sandberg, Michael Jordan or Walter Payton.  I dreamed of playing the guitar, going to concerts and rocking out.  I dreamed of meeting Gary Rossington, Steve Gaines and Allen Collins of Lynyrd Skynyrd and learning the guitar to rock like them.  We even had a binder full of guitar tabs consisting of songs we stood no chance of playing, considering we didn't really know how to play the guitar

At the time of this cross interest in music, Dave Matthews Band was always there in the background.  Their music was a lot of fun to me.  We would try to hit the high notes of "Satellite" and keep up with the end of "Ants Marching" or Dave's weird scats.  We analyzed the always interesting lyrics and argued over what songs are better.  It gave me a different opportunity to learn unique guitar rhythms and it showed me how a band can care so much about their fans that they play 100+ shows a year while allowing people to tape their shows and put them on the web for free.  The music we listened to before DMB was unreachable.  All the classic rock bands were either dead or insignificant, and the R&B/Rap "music" was all profit based and didn't provide an interesting enough live show, if they played any shows at all.  

DMB transformed me, not only in the type of music I listen to but who I became and what I decided to do with my free time.  They preached peace, they got me involved in politics at a young age and even gave me interest in protecting the environment.  Going away for the weekend, camping and going to hotels for the shows have formed traditions for friends you don't see that often, or just simply a way to get away from reality.
Being from Chicago, but living in Bloomington, Indiana for the last 6 years, I don't see my friends from back home to often.  In high school, we would pack the cars/vans and head to Alpine Valley in Wisconsin, and we decided to continue that tradition to this very day.  Every year, except this past tour, my Bloomington friends and I would make the trip to Chicago to meet up with some friends from home and then head to Alpine with everyone.  

Here in Indiana, we have started a tradition going to Deer Creek and camping right there by the venue, always a unique experience.  Other traditions are starting, and some are fading but its been a lot of fun and I hope to take time for these trips my whole life and I encourage everyone to do so as well.


It's hard to explain, but finding something that makes you that happy almost seems healthy.  When times are bad, as they have been for me the last few years, it gave me an out - something to look forward to and put a smile on my face.  It has become a hobby to follow their set list, listen to as many shows as I can and critique their every move like I would for my Chicago Cubs, Bears, Bulls, Hawks, and Indiana Hoosiers.  You become a part of something, a community of friends and people you don't even know.  If you have something in your life like that, don't make excuses not to go, including money.  You can always find a way, and it's important you have that time away from all the stresses of life. 
   
Total Shows: 35
 - Dave Matthews Band
 - Ben Harper
 - Ozomatli
- Dave Matthews Band
- Jason Mraz

- Dave Matthews Band
- Trombone Shorty & Orleans Ave.

First song ever heard: #41 with Butch Taylor on the keyboards
Most common song heard: Grey Street (17) - First time seen: Soldier Field, June 29, 2000 (included 3rd verse)
Most common venue: Alpine Valley.  Most recent July 19, 2009 and first time on August 31, 2002
Most common opener: Don't Drink the Water (5 times) - First time seen: Allstate Arena, April 27, 2002
Most common Encore: Two Step (8) - First time seen: June 29, 2000 - Soldier Field
Favorite Song: Jimi Thing live @ Central Park ft. Warren Haynes
Favorite Studio Album: Before These Crowded Streets
Cities visited for DMB shows: Chicago, IL - Rosemont, IL - Bridgeview, IL - Bloomington, IN - Tinley Park, IL - East Troy, WI - Noblesville, IN - Cuyahoga Falls, OH - Pittsburgh, PA - Tampa, FL - Charlottesville, VA (Nov. 20)

"Eat, Drink and be Merry, for tomorrow we'll die"